Planning ahead can make moving a lot easier for both children and their parents. Whether it's a move across the city, province or country, nurturing the kids' needs will help them better adjust to their new home.
Children's Needs Vary with Age
Whether they're very young or school-age, children may react differently to a new home setting. Many moving companies offer tips through their websites to make moving easier.
Based in the United States, 123 Movers says young children will usually adjust very well to a move and a new home. However, they may also be confused about the change, so parents should try to explain the situation and can even turn the whole process into a new adventure.
School-age children may have trouble adjusting to new class members and a different social circle. Some children worry they won't fit in or find new friends, 123 Movers added.
Teenaged children may also have trouble with the idea of moving, since their sense of identity is usually tied into their friends and school environment. Encourage the kids to stay in touch with their old friends through letters, e-mail and phone calls.
Adjusting to a New Home Takes Time
Not everyone feels comfortable in their new home right away. Allowing kids to participate in the move, even if they are young, might make them feel more at ease with the idea of a new home.
Let children do some of the packing on their own as well. Young children can pack a special box or bag with their favourite toys or something that will make them feel better once they arrive at the new house.
Later, talk to the kids about decorating ideas for their new rooms.
Explore the New Neighbourhood
Finally, once some or all of the boxes have been unpacked, take some time to learn more about the new area. Learning about new surroundings can ease children's fears, according to KidsHealth. The kids might even get excited about touring the new house, school and neighbourhood.
For more distant moves, to a new province or country, for example, be sure to give the kids as much information as possible before leaving. Visit the library for information and learn where kids and families can take part in events going on in their new communities.
Tips for a Successful Move
- Be enthusiastic about a move: Children will pick up on their parents' sentiments.
- Maintain the family's regular routine after the move.
- Move during the regular school year: Moving during the school break can be difficult for kids, since they will be unfamiliar with their classmates once school resumes.
- Let the kids talk about their fears.
- Allow children to say goodbye to their old home, friends and family members.
- After the move, spend time together as a family and make sure everyone is adjusting well.
- Teach the kids their new address and phone number as soon as possible.
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